Geoffrey Thomas
LMHC

Licensed Mental Health Counselor
License Number LH60982480
You feel like you’re constantly shaping yourself to meet others’ expectations, but doing so makes you feel like you’re losing touch with what truly makes you happy, with who you really are. You put so much energy into being there for others, yet feel drained at the end of the day. You take on a lot of responsibility for your family, your friends, and the people you care about most, but your own needs keep getting pushed to the side.
You feel exhausted from holding it all together, but you rarely get the space to take care of yourself. You value your relationships but feel afraid of trusting others enough to let your guard down.
You never quite feel like who you are is good enough to be loved by others.
You work so hard to make everything perfect, and when it goes well, you don’t feel proud; you just feel relieved that you escaped rejection for now. When it goes poorly, it is just proof of every negative thing you tell yourself.
You can’t stand feeling invisible but you’re also afraid of really being seen. Intimacy can feel overwhelming but loneliness feels unbearable. You are afraid that you are both too much for others and not enough.
In your romantic relationships, you feel lonely and disconnected. When you and your partner try to talk about problems, you both get overwhelmed, worn down, hurt, and resentful. Each time you try to communicate and connect, it sets off the same old argument that leaves both of you feeling even more hurt and alone.

I can be a mapmaker for your emotional landscape, a guide to help you navigate emotions with more clarity and direction, and an anchor for the inner storm. For couples, I am a bridge builder from isolation to connection.
Often, we focus too much on changing the things we don’t like about ourselves and only get more discouraged. The irony is that when we truly begin to accept ourselves, we can’t help but transform.
We might think that we just need to push ourselves harder to be better, but this often just leads to more stress, burnout, and avoidance. When we tap into compassion for ourselves, we can begin to give ourselves permission to nourish ourselves and grow a little bit every day.
You show strength and commitment every day to those around you; imagine what could happen if you started directing just some of that strength and commitment toward yourself.
In addition to individual and couples therapy, I also specialize in working with teens and men and masculinity. I feel honored to help anyone who identifies as a man to explore new dimensions of masculinity - a masculinity that feels true to yourself and that embraces the strength of vulnerability.
Clinical Specialties
ADHD
Adolescents
Adoption
Anger Management
Anxiety
Bisexual
Codependency
Coping Skills
Intergenerational trauma
Life transitions
Marital and premarital counseling
Men's issues
Parenting
Peer relationships
Perfectionism
Racial identity
Relationship issues
School issues
Self esteem
Sexual identity
Stress
Teens
Trauma and PTSD


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Seattle Counseling Office
Our office is located in the Ballard neighborhood of Seattle.
5306 Ballard Ave NW,
Seattle, WA
Can’t make it into the office? We also offer online therapy for your convenience.

Schedule a free 15-minute phone consultation to see if we are a good fit.